Of Men two

Let him miss you.
Let him need you.
Let him love you.
You DON'T need to give it your all everytime.
Let him do his part.
Thats why its called a relationship, you and him have to give and take from each other.

Sometimes, giving it your all is not enabling, it can also be constricting. It robs the other person a chance to do his part or contribute to the relationshipt. Don't be afraid to demand once in a while. Remember, a guy will treat you the way you treat or see yourself. If you think you are not deserving or if you do not ask/request for what you want, chances are he will treat you the same way you treat or see yourself.
Actually it works both ways for men and women. We all NEED to be needed sometimes.

A mistake we women do is we want CONSTANT reassurance. Nothing wrong with reassurances but realistically, its' not always the same everyday. The feelings will always be there but the INTENSITY will not be the same everyday.

Think of it as the ebb and flow of the sea. Everyday, the tide comes in and goes out. BUT IT ALWAYS COMES BACK. The same in relationships, sometimes there are intense moments and sometimes dull, even painful moments. Once we learn to see and accept this as being natural in relationships, things will be easier to handle. Ride the wave baby!